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Abhati O Talks about the Kama Sutra

I have always been a lover of books. If you were to come to my house, you would see I have large bookshelves in every room overflowing with books on many different topics. I believe I am actually addicted to reading and buying books. I am always looking for something else to learn… Back in 2000 there were a lot of things going on in my life that lead me to start reading self help books. I wanted a broader understanding of my life as well as how those around me affected me. While looking through books in the Self-help section of a Borders Bookstore, I happened to see the section of the store that was dedicated to erotica… I remember a small red satin…

So YOUR MAN told you he is SINGLE?

I don’t normally give relationship advice but after hanging out with my guy and his friends this weekend I felt a strong desire to just get a few things off my chest. This advice I want to give is to all the women who are with men that make it clear that they want to be single and the women who keep trying to make it more than it is. I will never give advice from a position that I don’t understand: my advice comes from my own personal experiences. It’s time certain women get a grip on reality Ladies respect yourselves When you catch your man in some mess… you confront him on it and he tells you he is single or isn’t your…

Try Falling back in love!

I never claim to be Ms. Know it All. There is no way my advice will apply to everyone all the time but this little tidbit definitely applies to me so I can only assume it will help others. Some of us come to this website to share our stories about intimacy, to share our pain or troubles, to get tips and other just love to read what might be said. With that said I want to give you one intimacy tip that helped me tremendously. My guy and me had our ups and downs, we’ve both moved on several times and tried to make it work with others but we always seemed to come back to US. The yo-yo effect we had going on…

Is it Time to Start Using Lube?

Women and men both have different reasons for using lube. After a conversation with one of my best friends I realized that using lube has become a necessity for some women. Most of my Girl friends and associates are 40 and over; we are getting older and vaginal dryness due during the premenopausal stage of our lives can cause intimacy to be down right painful. It doesn’t mean we aren’t horny or losing the attraction to our significant others, our bodies are simply changing. The Lube Stigma Using lube can sometimes come with a certain stigma, sometimes we wonder if our partners feel like there is something wrong with us because we aren’t getting wet enough. I remember times when my significant other would pull…

Failed Relationships are Blessings in Disguise 

For the past few months I’ve been talking to a friend of mine that has been totally distraught over the fact that her relationship with her guy ended.  No matter what I have said to her she can’t see that his leaving her was a blessing in disguise.  Many of us look back on past relationships and wish we had what we had lost. The questions you ask when they leave you If your guy or girl left you, you begin to look at yourself, “What did I do wrong?”,  “Why couldn’t he want or love me?”,  or  “What was so great about her?”.  Yes self reflection is great, you should take the time to look at yourself and see if you have some habits…

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