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What The Heck Are Ben Wa Balls?

These may be the world’s oldest sex toy. So no need to be afraid. I was introduced to ben wa balls back in 2003. I always liked going to the adult toy stores with my guy and looking around for new stuff. I will admit that although I knew what most of the sex toys in the store did, whenever I saw those little balls I was baffled. So I decided to buy a set, and then I got online and did a little research. A really quick history of ben wa balls Ben Wa Balls originated in Japan around 500 AD and were originally used to give men a little extra pleasure during intercourse. You know women are smart, so we realized that if men…

Abhati O Talks about the Kama Sutra

I have always been a lover of books. If you were to come to my house, you would see I have large bookshelves in every room overflowing with books on many different topics. I believe I am actually addicted to reading and buying books. I am always looking for something else to learn… Back in 2000 there were a lot of things going on in my life that lead me to start reading self help books. I wanted a broader understanding of my life as well as how those around me affected me. While looking through books in the Self-help section of a Borders Bookstore, I happened to see the section of the store that was dedicated to erotica… I remember a small red satin…

Try Falling back in love!

I never claim to be Ms. Know it All. There is no way my advice will apply to everyone all the time but this little tidbit definitely applies to me so I can only assume it will help others. Some of us come to this website to share our stories about intimacy, to share our pain or troubles, to get tips and other just love to read what might be said. With that said I want to give you one intimacy tip that helped me tremendously. My guy and me had our ups and downs, we’ve both moved on several times and tried to make it work with others but we always seemed to come back to US. The yo-yo effect we had going on…

Is it Time to Start Using Lube?

Women and men both have different reasons for using lube. After a conversation with one of my best friends I realized that using lube has become a necessity for some women. Most of my Girl friends and associates are 40 and over; we are getting older and vaginal dryness due during the premenopausal stage of our lives can cause intimacy to be down right painful. It doesn’t mean we aren’t horny or losing the attraction to our significant others, our bodies are simply changing. The Lube Stigma Using lube can sometimes come with a certain stigma, sometimes we wonder if our partners feel like there is something wrong with us because we aren’t getting wet enough. I remember times when my significant other would pull…

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